It seems that quite a bit of controversy has been sparked in response to a University of Toronto study that is investigating the use of homeopathic treatment interventions for children and youth with ADHD.
According to the article Scientists critical of University of Toronto homeopathy study – published by the Toronto Star last week – 90 “top scientists” from universities around the world have signed an open letter criticizing the study and casting doubt on the legitimacy of homeopathy as a potential treatment modality.
Check out the article and let us know what you think!
With International Women’s Day coming up on March 8th, we thought it would be important to acknowledge some of the unique challenges that women with ADHD tend to face. One such challenge is a tendency to take on too much.
No, this is not necessarily exclusive to women, nor to ADHD. Yes, things are shifting with respect to gender roles and expectations…the times they are a changing. That being said, we do still often see women at the clinic who are spreading themselves thin and taking on multiple roles – sometimes more than seems possible.
We often hear “women are so great at multi-tasking,” or generalizations like “my wife does all the planning, she’s good at that.” There seems to be this expectation that women often feel to be “the superwoman” - to do it all. This might even be a self-imposed expectation, but it doesn’t make it any less powerful. On top of that perceived pressure, individuals with ADHD often have a tendency to over-commit as it is (as we talked about in Learning to say NO: 6 tips to help curb over-commitment).
The cost of this? Stress. Stress that isn’t sustainable over the long-term. Unfortunately, we aren’t superheroes; we are mere mortals with limited resources.
We recently heard a great expression: “Giving is supposed to come from a place of fullness.” If you’re giving yourself to others from an empty bucket, maybe it’s time to reevaluate. This isn’t an easy process, but it’s an important one: to stop, pause, and think about what you’re doing for you; to think about what can be delegated, and what expectations you’re able to step back from, even a little.
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As a bonus, for a great resource on information for Women with ADHD click here.
We’re happy to announce that Springboard Clinic’s group for adults with ADHD will be running on Thursday evenings in May! There are some awesome benefits to being part of a group like this, and we’re excited to be able to offer it as an option to help you move forward.
Now, sometimes people do have negative memories of group work, usually from the days of group projects at school. If that’s you, consider the fact that in the past, maybe you and your group members weren’t quite on the same page. With school projects, there will inevitably be varying levels of motivation, and you won’t always be working toward the same goal. We are sure this will be different.
But what if everybody who shows up actually wants to be there? What if you’re working in a group – any group – where you’re all working toward something similar; where you’re all essentially on the same page. Maybe it wouldn’t be quite so dreadful!
Hear us out:
When you’re stuck on something, a group can give you a fresh perspective. People who are removed from your situation can often give insight into tricky situations that you might not have considered. Groups are a great platform to help you step outside of yourself and see things with fresh eyes!
You have a chance to get and give ideas and strategies. Even if an idea doesn’t end up being relevant to you, it can be very interesting hearing some strategies that have worked for others. If anything it can give you some insight into what types of idea could work for you. On the other end, if you came up with an idea that worked really well for you, it feels great to be able to share it with others. Why keep that to yourself?
By working in a group, you’re connecting with other people with a common interest. In the context of our group, this means that you’re connecting with other adults with an ADHD diagnosis. Even with a work project, though, it can be really powerful connecting with others who are in the trenches with you.
A group can help keep you motivated as you work on your own goals. By working with other people you’re all holding each other accountable, which can be really motivating. You’re all in this together!
Springboard Clinic’s Adult ADHD Group will be running Thursday evenings in May 2015, from 7:00PM to 8:30PM. For more information, or to register, please click here. Or, you can contact us at 416-901-3077 or firstname.lastname@example.org
If you’re reading this and you’re the “non-ADHD” partner in a relationship impacted by ADHD, you might be familiar with a feeling we like to call “frustration.” Yes, ADHD is totally manageable and there are some amazing strengths that come with it, but the fact is, sometimes ADHD symptoms are not appropriately managed. Or, maybe they’re being “managed,” but in a way that isn’t really in line with your own expectations.
So, if you’re feeling a bit frustrated, here are some things to keep in mind as you try to figure out how to communicate your expectations to your ADHD partner:
DO: Remind yourself of the things you value in your partner. As a first step, move away from the negatives and look at the reasons why you appreciate and love your partner. No, this won’t fix everything. But, it can take a bit of the edge off when you remind yourself what they bring to the table.
DON’T: Assume you know your partner’s intentions. This is a dangerous road to go down – even if you know your partner well, you don’t really know for sure why they’re doing what they’re doing. Assuming the worst and not addressing an issue directly can quickly build up an unhealthy dose of resentment in a relationship!
DO: Consider the root of your partner’s difficulties. An ADHD-style brain is very different from a non-ADHD one. For that reason, the more you understand why it can be difficult for your partner to follow-through on seemingly simple tasks, the easier it will be to come from a more empathetic perspective (and come up with more creative solutions together!)
DON’T: Over-communicate or hover over your partner. Good intentioned or not, hovering, reminders, or follow-up comments can feel like “nagging” and can trigger negative emotions really quickly – nobody wins with this. If you and your partner are falling into this communication trap, maybe it’s time to brainstorm a new way of making sure you’re both being heard.
DO: Evaluate your expectations on what’s “good enough.” With or without ADHD, it’s inevitable that people will have different expectations for the same task. Yes, there will be some totally reasonable expectations that you don’t want to budge on. But, maybe there’s some wiggle room you didn’t consider.
DON’T: View your partner as the enemy. When things aren’t going well, it can be easy to fall into a trap where you see your partner as “against” you rather than on your team. But, whether it feels like it or not, your partner is not the enemy. It’s important to remember that it’s highly unlikely that your partner is doing things to intentionally make you upset or frustrated.
DO: Take the time to connect with your partner outside of your shared to-do list or daily responsibilities. Even if you have to steal the time from something else, it’s important to get back to the basics of your relationship and enjoy each other’s company. There was a reason why you got together in the first place – revisit that reason!
The idea with all this isn’t for you to “give in” or feel like you’re not being heard in the interest of keeping the peace at home. But, if something isn’t working for you, maybe it’s time to change tactics! You have the power to decide how you can help change the communication patterns and practice communicating in a different way. Changes don’t happen overnight but they do happen!
Need a third party to help negotiate the communication with your partner? It might be worth giving couples coaching a shot. Click here for more information about our services at Springboard Clinic, or contact us at email@example.com or 416-901-3077
Most of us are aware of the the “cardinal” symptoms of ADHD, like inattention, impulsivity, and hyperactivity. Many of us, however, aren’t as aware of how these and other ADHD symptoms can actually impact a person’s life. In fact, we often come across individuals with ADHD themselves who are surprised when we show them a potential connection between something going on in their life and ADHD.
Below are a couple of those connections – some of them you might be aware of, some of them might be surprising. Either way, we hope that they will be interesting tidbits that at least give you something to think about:
Trouble falling asleep (and staying asleep). A strength of an ADHD-style brain is how “Ferrari-like” it can be. This can translate into difficulty, however, when a racing mind makes it tough to fall asleep at night. Interestingly, we’ve also come across a lot of clients who fall asleep easily when they’re physically exhausted, but their mind seems to wake them up in the middle of the night.
Motivation for self-care tasks (like exercise). Getting started on something like exercise does not easily engage an ADHD-style brain. Despite motivation and/or interest in the grand scheme of things, it can be hard to remember in the moment how much you love doing it, or how good it feels afterwards. That first step can feel overwhelming. On top of that, ADHD individuals do well with a sense of urgency – something that isn’t necessarily there if you’re only accountable to yourself.
Doing “simple” things like sending emails. Something like sending an email or making a phone call can often feel too “big” or tedious to deal with in the moment – even if “intellectually” you know it isn’t a big deal and won’t necessarily take a long time. Frustratingly, an ADHD-style brain can get stuck on stuff that feels bigger than it actually is.
“Hyper-sensitivity” to emotions. Many people with ADHD are highly empathetic and in-tune with the emotions of others, which can be a huge strength. This sensitivity can be so sharp, however, that it can be overwhelming at times. A random example? When watching something awkward on TV, many people with ADHD end up changing the channel because they feel that awkwardness so deeply.
Emotional “flooding”. Emotional regulation can be significantly impacted with ADHD. Because of that, individuals with ADHD are often easily “flooded” – they can seemingly go from 1 to 10 in 2 seconds flat. This can be tough to deal with in the moment, and often requires the person to step away from the situation briefly to stop themselves from drowning.
Trouble shifting gears. Having ADHD doesn’t mean that you can’t focus. As we talked about here, individuals with ADHD can often “hyper-focus” on tasks (e.g. become absorbed in them). This can be a strength and can lead to innovative outputs. On the other end, however, this can make it tough to pull out of what you’re doing and focus on a new task (like going to bed, starting a more “boring” task, or even remembering to eat lunch!).
This list was by-no-means comprehensive – it was just a little teaser to give you an idea of some of the ways symptoms of ADHD can impact a person. If you want to add to the list, let us know your own experiences and surprises in the comments below – we’d love to hear about it!
We find that the post helps put some humor into some otherwise frustrating symptoms. As a bonus, when you start recognizing even some of the items on the list, it can be a huge relief knowing you’re not the only one – other people understand your plight!
Be warned, there is a little bit of swearing peppered throughout the list. Nothing too inappropriate, but just be wary of your location when you open the link, and who you’re letting read it!
If you think your child (or any loved one for that matter) might have Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, better known as ADHD, it can be daunting. You may be thinking: What do I do now? How do I support my child? How can the school help?
Our own Tara Boulden recently addressed this issue on the Help! We’ve Got Kids website, a comprehensive online directory for parents and caregivers. Check out I think my child might have ADHD – now what? for some important things to know about ADHD in terms of identifying the disorder and responding to an ADHD diagnosis.
The TED talk below, presented by Daniel Goldstein, a behavioural economist, talks about a phenomenon those with an ADHD diagnosis will be particularly familiar with: The battle between your present and future self. The present self tends to think about the here-and-now – what’s right in front of you, the immediate gratification…The present self is strong, and well, in the present. The future self, on the other hand, is off somewhere in the future. It’s much less salient. It is weak.
Essentially, there tends to be an unequal battle between the present and the future self, and we need to figure out how to level the playing field. In this video, Goldstein presents his thoughts on changing people’s relationship to their future selves. We want to figure out ways to make our future selves more concrete and more salient. We’ve talked before about Emotions and Motivation with ADHD, and his argument seems to be in line with this thinking – making the future self stronger will inevitably play at our emotions, and thus impact our motivations.
We’re thrilled to report that Springboard Clinic’s “TED-style” talk on February 5th, 2015 was a huge success (and a full house!)
In honour of our fifth anniversary, we held this event for anybody who was interested in learning more about ADHD, what we’ve learned as a clinic, and thoughts on future directions for research and treatment.
Each of our five amazing speakers gave talks based on their unique experiences and expertise as coaches, educators, researchers, and even individuals going through the journey of learning how to thrive with ADHD. We also had a chance to hear opening remarks from our own Dr. Gray, who has put her heart and soul into Springboard Clinic since opening our doors.
Here are some takeaways from each of the talks:
Laura MacNiven, our Director of Health Education/Coaching, spoke about how individuals with attention issues can thrive by first and foremost understanding the way their brain works. She taught us that by gaining knowledge about the root of our difficulties, we can strategically focus on strengths, and ultimately find some version of peace.
Noah Jonsson, our youngest speaker at 11-years-old, started off his talk by encouraging us to run on the spot for 30 seconds so we could focus better on what he wanted us to hear! Using personal anecdotes, Noah inspired us all to use exercise as a way to help manage focus and mental health challenges.
Roberta Longpre, the Head of Student Support and Wellness at Branksome Hall, shared her thoughts on a new model of “wellness”- one that focuses on finding satisfaction, happiness, and well-being now, instead of focusing on wellness as a consequence of “working hard” and achieving success. She also reminded us of the importance of both sleep and play as part of our well-being, no matter what age!
Barbara Csenge, the Director of the Learning Enrichment Centre at St. Michael’s College School, shared her innovative work in the area of concussion management. As part of her talk, she helped us understand the link between brain injury, attention issues, and well-being, and made us think even more about the importance of making healthy decisions in all aspects of life.
Anne Bailey, a coach/therapist/assessment consultant at Springboard, helped simplify the complex field of neuroscience and neuroplasticity, and how it can impact opportunities for behavioural change. She also challenged us to “outsmart our brains” in three ways: 1) By building habits that can lead to changes in the brain. 2) By knowing what your brain usually does in situations (and changing the outcome). 3) By questioning what your brain tells you every once and awhile!
We’re going to be posting video of this evening in due time, so look out for it in the coming weeks! We look forward to continuing the dialogue of ADHD, innovation in the brain, while working to support individuals in our care.
In case you missed it, Monday February 2nd was Groundhog Day; a day where it is a groundhog’s job – in Ontario, Wiarton Willie – to tell us whether we’re in for another six weeks of winter (spoiler: Mr. Willie predicted an early spring for us this year).
Now, this might speak to the generation of the current writer, but when I hear “groundhog day” I rarely think of this tradition. More often than not, my mind immediately goes to the classic movie Groundhog Day, where Bill Murray’s character finds himself reliving the same day over and over again (which happens to be Groundhog Day).
The concept behind this movie is one you may be familiar with if you have ADHD – it can often feel like you’re caught in an endless cycle of the same thing over and over again. If you have ADHD, when something doesn’t go according to expectations, or you don’t follow-through with a goal or intention, it’s a common phenomenon to to tell yourself “next time I will do things differently” or “I’m going to remember this for next time.” But, “next time” comes around, and you seemingly do the exact same thing – whether it’s starting a project at the last minute, forgetting to call your friend back, or saying something in the moment you totally regret. For many reasons, individuals with ADHD often have a tough time connecting really good intentions to action. Because of this, it can often feel like you’re reliving the same day over and over again, doomed to repeat the same “mistakes” day in and day out.
So, if you’re caught up in your own Groundhog Day, now is the time for a change. It’s not just about “knowing better” or “trying harder” – this does not always translate into something positive. It’s important to recognize that with ADHD, there are real reasons why things may be difficult for you that need to be explored.
There’s a quote floating around that’s often attributed to Albert Einstein (but the source actually seems to be unknown): “The definition of insanity is doing something over and over again and expecting a different result.” So, let’s break the cycle of insanity and do something different.
Not sure what that next step might be? Maybe coaching can help guide you. Click here for more information about treatment services at Springboard Clinic or contact us for more information (416-901-3077 or firstname.lastname@example.org)